How to Find Happiness
How to Find Happiness ? Achieve your goals by becoming enamored of the man of your dreams. How does a man see a woman? Does she only eat, sleep and die? Is he herature son that she just raises. Boys are always on the look out for something more than what he has. A woman is something that men in general can’t have. Wouldn’t it be nice if you could do something to realize and realize your dreams? Believe it or not males think in depth. They dream about things most women can only dream and rarely experience. Why can’t the man do the same? Why must he suffer the same thing most other people suffer from and that is having to spend most of his time with you. I don’t get it.
Boys spend a lot of time in imagining what it would be like to have a particular woman in their lives. Of course like most things boys know they can never have it all. But I think its safe to say that they do fantasize about their perfect woman. Perhaps it is a combination of many things they desire. Maybe he has been exposed to women like your mom and daddy. But kind of like the way men think men think things are pretty basic psychology. Men want to be loved, need their loved and just want to be known. They aren’t that complex. They know what they want and need something and then they go and get it. I think people make them that way. Compared to women who really don’t know what they want and need they seem to walk into relationships much differently. I know that both men and women can be very complex but overall in general I feel that way.
Boys know how to separate ambition from responsibility
This is where many women step in and really ruin it. They want someone to think about while they are growing up. They are not in a hurry to be responsible for someone else all their lives. Well just like a woman wants to be known and have others talk about her positive attributes…a man wants to be known and has an attribute he can really be proud of. After all he is supposed to be the one that people think of when they remember your name. Why waste your life on a person that never will.
These really are basic desires that people have been fighting for right from our childhood. When we began to talk and grow up we were told to pursue happiness and not seek happiness as an inside job. We were told it was dangerous to be happy and that we were supposed to be happy within. This advice is one of the most damaging things we have ever heard. It seems that when we thought we wanted something it was either taken from us or put on the back burner. Finding happiness really isn’t that hard if you set your mind to it. You have to decide you will enjoy some good things along the way and include those things in your plans for happiness.
Wisdom Works Both ways. What I have found is that people either try to be wise and avoid mistakes or they are fearful of being wise. Being wise is a big part of wisdom and you have to take full advantage of both the trees around you and in yourself. Focus on your knowledge to grow your wisdom, knowledge of life’s people and your place in it. Use that wisdom and tap into your soul to become Him who only you can truly love.
Now go find your wisdom…that somewhere or other.